Gloss · Guides · Words to use instead of “very.”
Guide
Words to use instead of “very.”
Very asks the next word to do more than it can. Often there is a single word that already means “very” plus the thing. Here are the most useful swaps, and when very is perfectly fine.
Feelings
| Instead of | Try |
|---|---|
| very happy | delighted, elated, ebullient |
| very sad | heartbroken, despondent, forlorn |
| very angry | furious, livid, incandescent |
| very scared | terrified, petrified |
| very tired | exhausted, drained, lethargic |
| very surprised | astonished, stunned |
| very excited | thrilled, euphoric |
| very calm | serene, placid |
| very worried | anxious, distraught |
Size and amount
| Instead of | Try |
|---|---|
| very big | enormous, vast, immense |
| very small | tiny, minuscule |
| very many | countless, a plethora of |
| very full | packed, crammed |
| very common | ubiquitous, everywhere |
Quality
| Instead of | Try |
|---|---|
| very good | excellent, superb, sublime |
| very bad | awful, dire, atrocious |
| very beautiful | stunning, gorgeous, resplendent |
| very clever | brilliant, sagacious |
| very important | essential, vital |
| very clear | obvious, lucid |
| very old | ancient, antique |
| very short-lived | ephemeral, fleeting |
The senses
| Instead of | Try |
|---|---|
| very hot | scorching, sweltering |
| very cold | freezing, frigid |
| very loud | deafening, thunderous |
| very quiet | silent, hushed |
| very bright | dazzling, luminous |
| very wet | soaked, drenched |
| very dry | parched, arid |
| very hungry | starving, ravenous, voracious |
| very fast | rapid, swift |
| very slow | sluggish, languid |
Every swap changes the meaning a little
Furious is hotter than very angry; serene is deeper than very calm; ravenous is hungrier than very hungry. Pick the swap that is true, not the one that sounds biggest. The pages on happy, sad, angry and tired spell out the differences.
When very is fine
In speech, very is warm and natural: “That’s very kind of you” needs no upgrade. It is fine when nothing stronger fits, when rhythm wants it, and when you mean exactly “to a high degree” and no more. The goal is not to ban a word. It is to stop leaning on it.
Sixty swaps, and where each one differs
Each row gives the one word that carries “very + the word”, and the near-synonym that is not quite the same, because the point of the swap is to say the truer thing.
| Instead of | Say | But note |
|---|---|---|
| very tired | exhausted | Exhausted is empty; weary adds that it has gone on too long. |
| very happy | delighted | Delighted is about one thing; elated is lifted by news. |
| very sad | heartbroken | Only for a loss; for a mood, melancholy. |
| very angry | furious | Livid is paler and colder; irate is formal. |
| very scared | terrified | Petrified adds frozen in place. |
| very worried | anxious | Anxious can be without a cause; apprehensive has one coming. |
| very surprised | astonished | Stunned is left speechless; startled is the jump. |
| very bored | listless | Listless is the energy gone, not just the interest. |
| very calm | serene | Serene is untroubled; placid can shade into dull. |
| very big | enormous | Vast is wide; immense is beyond measuring. |
| very small | tiny | Minute is small enough to need attention; minuscule, to miss. |
| very many | countless | Numerous is plain; myriad is literary. |
| very few | scarce | Scarce is hard to get; sparse is spread thin. |
| very old | ancient | Ancient for things and times; elderly for people, and kindly. |
| very new | brand-new | Novel is new in kind, not in time. |
| very fast | rapid | Swift is graceful; brisk is cheerful about it. |
| very slow | sluggish | Sluggish is unwilling; leisurely is on purpose. |
| very good | excellent | Superb and outstanding mean above the rest, not just good. |
| very bad | terrible | Dreadful adds dread; appalling adds shock. |
| very pretty | beautiful | Beautiful is the whole; lovely adds warmth; stunning stops you. |
| very ugly | hideous | Hideous is strong; unsightly is mild and about things. |
| very clean | spotless | Immaculate is spotless and admired. |
| very dirty | filthy | Grimy is dirt that has settled in. |
| very hot | scorching | Sweltering is the heat you feel; scorching is the heat that burns. |
| very cold | freezing | Frigid is cold without warmth of any kind, in weather or in people. |
| very wet | soaked | Drenched is soaked through, usually by something. |
| very dry | parched | Arid is land; parched is a throat or a field. |
| very bright | brilliant | Dazzling is too bright to look at. |
| very dark | pitch-black | Dim is low light; gloomy is dark and sad. |
| very loud | deafening | Thunderous adds rumble; cacophonous adds mess. |
| very quiet | hushed | Silent is no sound; hushed is sound held back. |
| very smart | brilliant | Astute is smart about people; sagacious is smart with judgment. |
| very stupid | foolish | Foolish is about the act; dim is about the person, and unkind. |
| very funny | hilarious | Witty is clever; hilarious is laughter you cannot stop. |
| very serious | grave | Grave is weighty; solemn is ceremonial. |
| very important | crucial | Vital is needed for life or success; essential cannot be left out. |
| very interesting | fascinating | Compelling holds you; intriguing makes you want to know. |
| very boring | tedious | Tedious is long and dull; monotonous is dull because it repeats. |
| very hungry | ravenous | Famished is weak with it; voracious is the appetite itself. |
| very thirsty | parched | Dehydrated is the medical state. |
| very poor | destitute | Impoverished is made poor; destitute has nothing. |
| very rich | wealthy | Affluent is comfortable; opulent is wealth on display. |
| very expensive | exorbitant | Exorbitant is a price that is unfair; costly is just high. |
| very cheap | dirt-cheap | Inexpensive is neutral; cheap can mean badly made. |
| very strong | powerful | Robust is strong and healthy; sturdy is strong and simple. |
| very weak | frail | Frail is weak and breakable; feeble is weak in effect. |
| very careful | meticulous | Fastidious is hard to satisfy; painstaking is about the effort. |
| very careless | reckless | Reckless risks harm; negligent fails a duty. |
| very sure | certain | Positive is certain and will say so; convinced has been persuaded. |
| very confused | bewildered | Baffled cannot work it out; perplexed is still trying. |
| very clear | lucid | Lucid is clear thinking or writing; transparent is clear to see through. |
| very wise | sagacious | Sagacious is wise in judgment; shrewd is wise about advantage. |
| very talkative | loquacious | Garrulous talks too much; voluble talks fast and well. |
| very quiet (a person) | taciturn | Reticent is unwilling to speak on one thing; taciturn is by habit. |
| very friendly | gregarious | Gregarious likes company; affable is easy to talk to. |
| very shy | timid | Timid is afraid of what might happen; bashful is afraid of attention. |
| very generous | magnanimous | Magnanimous is generous to a rival; lavish is generous with money. |
| very stubborn | obstinate | Tenacious is stubborn about something worth it. |
| very brave | fearless | Intrepid is brave into the unknown; valiant is brave and noble. |
| very rude | insolent | Insolent is rude to a superior; curt is rude by being short. |
Questions people ask
What can I say instead of very?
Usually one word that already contains it: exhausted for very tired, furious for very angry, enormous for very big, crucial for very important. The table on this page has sixty.
Is it wrong to use very?
No. It is fine in speech and in dialogue, and when the plain word is the true one. In writing it is weak because it asks the next word to do what one exact word would.
What is the difference between exhausted and very tired?
Exhausted means the energy is gone; very tired means there is not much left. The stronger word changes the meaning, which is why the swap has to be true, not automatic.
What are other weak intensifiers?
Really, so, extremely, incredibly, totally, absolutely and literally used for emphasis. The fix is the same: find the one word.
Keep reading
How to be more articulate · Dictionary, thesaurus or glossary: which one you actually need · Words that make you sound smart · All guides